有緣無份也是美

有一種心情叫失落,有一種美麗叫放棄。

 

一次默默地放棄,放棄一個心儀卻無緣份的朋友;放棄某種等待卻無收穫的感情;放棄某種心靈的期望;放棄某種思想;放棄某種選擇。

每放棄一種思緒心裏便生出一種傷感。然而這種傷感並不妨礙自己去重新開始,在新的時空內將音樂重聽一遍,將故事再說一遍。

因為這是一種自然的告別與放棄,它富有超脫精神,因而傷感得美麗。

 

曾經有種感覺,想讓它成為永遠。過了許多年,才發現它已漸漸消逝了。

然後才懂︰原來握在手裏的,不一定就是我所想真正擁有的;我所擁有的,也不一定就是我真正銘刻在心裏的。

 

人生很多時候需要自覺地放棄,因為世間還有太多美好的事物。對沒有擁有的美好,我一直苦苦嚮往與追求,為了獲得,而忙忙碌碌。

其實自己真正所需要的,往往要在經過許多年後才會明白,甚至窮盡一生也不知所蹤!

對已經要擁有的美好,我又因為把握不住尺度,而存在一份忐忑與擔心。

 

夕陽易逝的歎息、花開花落的煩惱、人生本是不快樂的啊!因為擁有的時候,我們也許正在失去,而放棄的時候,也許又在重新獲得。

對萬事萬物,我們都不可能有絕對的把握。如果刻意去追逐與擁有,就很難走出患得患失的誤區。

生命需要昇華出安靜超然的精神,明白的人懂得放棄,真情的人懂得犧牲,幸福的人懂得超脫。

 

雖然我不是因你而來到這個世界,卻是因你而更加眷戀這個世界。

如果能和你在一起,我會對這個世界滿懷感激;如果不能和你在一起,我會默默地走開,卻仍然不會失掉對這個世界的愛和感激。

感激上天讓我與你相遇,與你別離,完成上帝所創造的一首詩!

 

生命給了我無盡的悲哀,也給了我永遠的答案。於是,安然一份放棄,固守一份超脫。

不管紅塵世俗的生活如何變遷,不管個人的選擇方式如何,更不管握在手中的東西輕重如何,我們雖逃避也勇敢,雖傷感也欣慰!

 

有一種感覺總在失眠時,才承認是“相思”;有一種緣分總在夢醒後,才相信是“永恆”;

有一種目光總在分手時,才看見是“眷戀”;有一種心情總在離別後,才明白是“失落”。

 

我們像往常一樣向生活的深處走去,我們像往常一樣在逐步放棄,又逐步堅定。 

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