懂得結交朋友的真正意義

人的一生不能沒有朋友。然而,真正的朋友在於“人之相知,貴相知心”。

天地之大,卻不是人人都能成為朋友。善良的人是最容易成為朋友的。

朋友如酒,需要“貯藏”,“貯藏”的時間愈久,味道愈醇。但不是每個人都能品出個中滋味。

 

朋友,猶如夏日裏的綠蔭,當你酷熱難熬時,他會帶給你一片清涼;

朋友,好似寒冬裏的一團火,當你的心被淒風苦雨冷卻時,他會送給你無限溫暖;

朋友,彷彿一劑苦口的良藥,雖難以下嚥,卻能醫治你身上的“頑疾”;

朋友,就像一面明亮的鏡子,當你身藏“污垢”而自己又難以看清時,他會時時提醒你應該怎樣懂得生活的潔淨。

 

當今社會,物欲橫流,傳統的思想正慢慢地被激進的潮流所侵蝕。

人隨著社會的不斷變革而發生了心靈上的蛻變;為了追求時尚而變得愈來愈市儈,更有甚者把追求金錢奉為圭臬。

 

你如果過於清廉貧窮,哪怕是再好的朋友,昔日之情也會隨著“孔方兄”的侵入而慢慢淡化。

但無論怎樣,人還是萬物之靈的神,各自的追求和愛好,不同的性格與人品,造就了這個世界的五彩繽紛。

 

手指不可能一樣長,這個世界更不可能是人人同一模樣。

但有一點是相通的,那就是人不是孤立的存在,你生活在這個大千世界中,必須要與人交往,必須要有自己的同類。

 

誰擁有真正的朋友,誰就擁有幸福和安寧。

真正的朋友是不會嫌貧愛富的,你越是身陷困境,他愈會用心去拯救。

所以,朋友之間要用真誠去換取真心。

 

結交朋友,貴在“誠信”二字, 還有“大度”和“氣量”是結交朋友的兩劑藥方。

真正的朋友不可能時時讓你“稱心如意”,有時也會因對你的誤解而說出一些“不盡人意”的話;

或者因求他辦事而一時難以如願,難免會引起你“那個”。

 

這時,你一定得設身處地為朋友想想,用理解的尺度,好好丈量自己的“胸襟”。

拿出“宰相肚裏能撐船”的大度,三思而後行,不可因一時之氣而毀掉長期建立的友情。

要知道,“萬兩黃金易得,難尋知己一個”。

如果是患難至交,一旦毀掉這份友情,待你明白之後,豈不是悔恨終身?

 

結交朋友還要懂得“寬容”二字,“不責人小過,不揭人隱私,不念人舊惡。”人非聖賢,孰能無過?

無論是誰,都有做錯事、走錯路的時候,我們又何必斤斤計較,患得患失?

親情之間尚且難免相爭相鬥,更何況朋友乎?

 

結交朋友,便是給自己架設一座通往未來的橋樑,同時也是為自己構築一個幸福的樓臺。

當得意時,別忘了“福兮禍之所伏”;當你沉淪時,也別忘了“禍兮福之所倚”。

 

凡事都得為將來做些考慮和打算。人生命途多舛,誰也料想不到明天會發生什麼。

但只要擁有真誠的朋友,你的面前便多了幾條通途,又何須為自己的前途擔憂?

 

抹去世俗的偏見,學會與朋友坦誠相處。

只要你懂得結交朋友的真正意義,你就永遠不會感到孤獨,你心靈的天空就會永遠純淨、明亮!

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