懂心的人

看到這樣一個故事:庫房大門上有一把鎖,粗壯的鐵棒費了很大的勁都無法打開門鎖。

鋼鋸接著上場,任憑左拉右鋸,門鎖還是紋絲不動。

這時,一把毫不起眼兒的鑰匙悄悄出現,扁平彎曲的身子,一副弱不禁風的樣子。

當它鑽盡鎖孔時,一下子就把那副堅固的門鎖打開了。

 

“你是怎麼做到的”鐵棒和鋼鋸不解地問。

“因為我最懂它的心”鑰匙輕柔地回答。

 

在我們每個人的心裏,是否也有這樣的一把鎖?是否也在等一把能開鎖的鑰匙?

而拿鑰匙的人,又是憑什麽開啟這把鎖的呢?很多時候,我們的心門是關閉的,是拒絕向外敞開的。

 

越是久經世故的人,心門閉的越緊。人們總結處世的最好方法,便是為自己構築一道防火牆,甚至避人避己,以此拉開適當的距離。

適當的距離的確是保持人際關係融洽的最好方式。

但,一個久閉心門的人,是否就不需要與人暢開肺腑的交流,是否就喜歡在心門內,自消自受內心世界的一切情感呢?

 

首先,可以肯定地說,不是。在每個人的內心深處,都有最原始的渴望,那就是希望被理解、關懷和接納。

但是,這個社會並不是善良都能感到卑鄙,正直都能消融無恥。這個世界有時是顛倒黑白,是非不分的。

 

人們都在這個日益變冷的社會裏,為自己戴上了各色各樣的假面具。

市場的競爭,就業的選擇,工作的壓力,精神的苦悶等等······

其實現代人活的並不輕鬆。於是,婚外戀、情人、藍顏、紅顏比比皆是。

 

男人開始逃離老婆,讓寄情在外的女人為自己開拓一片自由的領地,讓自己脆弱與疲憊的心靈卸下重負。

女人開始逃離婚姻,她們早以從傳統的桎梏下解放出來。男人可以花天酒地,女人為何不可紅杏出牆。

 

人們尋尋覓覓,機緣離離散散。

世間的男男女女最終所尋求的,無非是一把能開啟自己心門的鑰匙,無非是在茫茫人海中,渴望遇到一個能懂自己的人。

人們一方面保住家庭,一方面尋求愛情。而好的知己情人,會使家庭更穩定,使愛情更美好,這樣雙項的收益,人們何樂而不為。

 

不論是和同性相處,還是和異性相戀,都離不開信任和真誠。願我們都能走進彼此的心裏,真正的去瞭解他(她)們的內心世界。

用熱情和溫暖去化解一切的誤會、猜疑和隔閡,並能在合適的時候,給以對方最貼切的問候和關懷。

 

其實,人與人之間,只要手握信任和真誠的鑰匙,就能開啟每一扇緊閉的心門。 

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