每個人的感情都是自私的

每個人的感情都是自私的總是希望自己要的一定要得到,但往往忘了是否也該先付出才有可能奢求一份期許。

愛情對很多人來說都是不停止的傷痛曾經它是如此。。。。。。

 

當有機會再撿拾驚恐疑惑的心態是難以平復的相信不管男女都一樣吧。只是有些免疫了懂得淡化感情。

明白怎樣潛移默化自己的需求。喔!應該是許多男人的拿手絕活吧。而女人卻多半走不出自我囹圄的框框。可笑吧?抑或是可悲?!

 

男女的不同生理構造竟然也造就了不同的心理與命運。

不過我還是篤信一點真心的人用真心換取真正的幸福無心的人拿無心奪取一時的快樂。結果終究還是公平的!!

 

我們常聽到有朋友抱怨愛情前後不一的樣子追求時是多殷勤,而追到手後卻失去了當初的熱情。

女人開始懷疑男人有新歡男人認為女人無理取鬧。分分合合中愛情的品質直直滑落。

 

我們也常聽到許多人大喊:我只要細水長流的愛情,不要轟轟烈烈的愛情!

但是,似乎看到的每一對情侶總在一開始就愛的死去活來,天天膩在一起。

不然就是電話講個不停,一付我可以為對方犧牲一切的模樣。愛情總在一開始猛烈燃燒,卻常常燒成灰燼。

 

我常會思考一個問題:我愛的是這個人,還是愛上愛情的感覺?

通常有一半的人是戀上愛情的感覺。所以當他們在沒有情人時總是感到空虛寂寞,直囔著想找個人來愛。

 

假如再更講究一點,還會加個“ 要對的人來愛 ” 的條件,以表自己的“寧缺勿濫 ”!

但說穿了,只不過是想找人填補心中的空缺,找個愛自己的人,因為沒有被愛就活不下去!

 

假如真的是愛這個人,他們願意付出,就算對方會粗心大意的忽略自己,也不會一直比較誰愛誰多。

到哪天對方離開了,也不會因得不到而來個玉石俱焚。

 

我會告訴愛我的:請用“ 心”來愛我! 別用你的感覺來愛我。

感受被一個人疼,不是每天專車接送,也不是要甜言蜜語,要在乎的,是對方看自己的眼神!

 

跟你在一起時,他的視野都是你,有熱情、有欣賞。當不在身邊時,他的心中是惦記的,有思念、有牽掛!

 兩人在一起不是要相互牽絆。我們說牽掛牽掛,是牽引著自由去將愛情掛在內心深處。

 

假如對方表示他因為想你而一整天茶不思飯不想,那代表在愛情裡,他還不夠獨立!

這樣的情人很多,而他們也終會真正屬於某一個人、某一段感情。

找到願意接受另一個人將夢想建築在自己身上的,這是其中一種愛情形態!

 

而在愛情中,的確是很難將兩人分的清楚。因為畢竟愛情是兩人一同創造出來的,是兩個靈魂交錯的光合作用。

只是,不要忘了,屬於自己的那一顆心依然在胸口掛著,而思維更是專屬的!

雖然一路上會有形形色色的人陪自己走過,但唯有自己是陪自己全程走完,不忠於自己,那要對誰負責?

假如兩人在愛情中都失去自己,為了對方改變自己,看不到獨特性,久了愛情會像間只賣cappuccino的咖啡店,沒有其他口味的驚喜。

 

承諾,是愛情的某種制式語言,但往往再多的保證都留不住已變的心,天荒地老海枯石爛頓時承諾成了刺耳的諷語。

 

不管自己是承諾的給予者或接受者,最後的解釋只剩力不從心!

我從沒給過關於未來的承諾,因為我連下一秒的雲彩都無法預知了?怎能告訴另一個人我們的將來有多美?

就連要給我承諾我也要不起,只怕是期待越高,失落越大。

 

山頂的風景很美,但是不管是跌下來或是走下山,都比上山痛苦!

相愛不難,但是愛已兩難時,卻苦不堪言,先給自己承諾吧!

承諾一下自己會愛多久??? 承諾一下愛有多真??? 承諾一下怎麼讓愛幸福???

 

假如,連對自己的承諾都給不了,怎有權利去對別人的未來負責?怎有能力去給別人快樂?

一顆裝滿愛的心,是熱忱的、是傻氣的。假如遇到另一顆對的心,那便是全天下最幸福的事了!

 

我們往往無法與最愛的人相愛到老,卻能選擇與最懂自己的人相守,這何嘗不是種最美好的過程 ?

我們能求的不多,無非是種穩定與真心。用心是一切付出的基礎! 激情後的溫暖是真的,絕望後的領悟是痛的。

我們都該讓真心起飛,別再問愛人與被愛哪個幸福 ? 我只能說,真心的人最幸福!!

About terence0425leung

哲人無憂,智者常樂。並不是因為所愛的一切他都擁有了,而是所擁有的一切他都愛。
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