死心(要懂得放手)

愛情上最尷尬的其中一回事,是不肯死心。當他宣布要完結,而你那邊還未心息之際,你就會變得很難看。你扯住他問來問去,你問他為甚麼中途就走,你問他為甚麼愛過之後可以忽然不愛,你以為,愛上了一個人之後,是會一直愛下去的。你好痛苦,癡癡纏纏,也好醜樣。年輕的時候,反而是最固執的時候,拿得起卻放不低。而對死心的了解是,你先死心就可以,但他早你一步死心,就罪該萬死。

 

後來我們才明白,愛情,是會消逝的,而且更是措手不及的事,忽然,愛情就在他的手上終止。尤其是年輕時代的愛情,昨天還好端端,今日他就不要你了。只有令自己死心,你才能從痛苦中抽離。死心是,他不愛你了,你也不去愛他。

 

學習愛情是條雙行線,有來有往。只有走錯路的愛情才是單行線,只有你一條直路行駛,而你身邊根本沒有路相伴。

 

要輕鬆地說出:「是呀,他/她不愛我!」

 

不要仇恨,不要怨天怨地,你要明白,背叛是愛情中非常平常的事。既然可以忽然相遇,亦可以忽然離開。離離合合,是生命常規。執著而瘋狂,是傻人所為,別仰慕小說女主角的鍥而不捨,所有不肯放手的人心理都有問題,而且自私。失戀當然悲痛,但如果不能學習死心,你就無資格戀愛。我們的愛情是一段接一段的,也要經歷千迴百轉的孼消雲散,最後才會遇上棲息的地方。

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