婚姻的過程中,追求的是什麼….(有意思的一篇文章)

三十分鐘前,都還在懷疑自己的決定。來參加前男友的婚禮,是需要相當大的勇氣的,尤其是經過這幾年胖了超過十五公斤的她。不過,在仔細的思考過當初與他的交往情形(沒見過他爸媽,沒認識幾個他朋友)後,她還是願意假裝大方的將自己打扮得漂亮走進這個會場。

 

約十年前剛出社會時她和他交往了一年,其實沒什麼爭吵,除了他最後不清不楚的分手原因之外,他實在算是個很棒的男朋友。婚禮本身沒什麼特別,按照最近幾年的慣例,婚禮前先播放男女雙方的成長照片(有小部分照片她都看過),然後開始播放婚紗照,這一切,都讓她覺得索然無味,一直到司儀宣佈了今晚的特別遊戲規則。

 

「我們今天為了讓新郎新娘能夠得到每一位特別的朋友的特別祝福,我們待會會請每一位被抽到的朋友上臺說說,他與新郎或新娘的關係,並且說出一件與她們來往中最特別的事情──」關係?

 

這下可好了,現場都是新郎認識的人,她斷不可能說自己是同事,或是小學或任何時期的同學,因為怎麼說都會被別人抓包,那,她要說是他的前女友嗎?這時現場也起了騷動,不過不同於她的驚慌,大家似乎非常樂於這個遊戲。

 

於是在晚宴的進行中,隨著不同的菜餚上桌的同時,也陸續的有許多不同關係的人走上台對新郎與新娘說出祝福的話。她則是持續冷汗直流。她祈禱,希望晚宴結束之前,沒被叫到名字,或是被叫到的話,她乾脆落跑算了。上去說話的人,有人哭著祝福,有人搞笑的說著新郎的糗事,不過大抵都是些無關痛癢的話。

 

這時有個外型出色的女人上臺了,臉上畫著合宜的妝,讓她的好肌膚看來更加出色,身上穿著優雅的禮服,襯托出她一身的好曲線。

 

她一開口,全場立刻安靜了下來。「我是新郎的前妻。」女人平靜的吐出了這幾個字。

「新郎很好,是個好人,對我,對我家人,對身邊的朋友,都很好。我印象最深的一件事情是,他最常對我說過的話,就是,他最喜歡的,是我的美麗。但我最覺得納悶的是,不到一年的婚姻生活,他便提出了離婚的要求,而我當初還是那麼的愛著他 …」

 

心裡漸漸的浮出回憶,才想起十年前交往時,他的確提到了他剛離婚的這件事情,但作夢都沒想到,前妻竟然是這麼美麗的女人。

 

雖然這位美女最後還是不免俗的恭喜了新郎,但全場的氣氛,卻充滿了竊竊私語的詭譎。司儀為了沖淡這股尷尬味,趕緊抽出了另外一個來賓的名字,於是從台下走出了一位相當斯文的女性,俐落的短髮,感覺上就像是在外商公司服務的高級主管。

 

「我是Subrina,如果算得沒錯的話,我應該是新郎的前前女友…」

這下可好,這下可真是又驚又喜。

 

看來坐在台下的緊張的人不只一個,這下子可一點都不害怕了。不過這時候倒是很好奇新郎的心情如何,於是刻意的起身眺望主桌的新郎,卻依然是一副平靜,喜樂的表情。不過同時,也瞧清楚了新娘的樣貌,比起前妻的美麗,和這位前女友的幹練,這位新娘子即使是穿上了婚紗,還是那麼的不起眼。

 

「我和新郎有過許多美好的回憶,不過我特別有印象的也是他對我常說的一句話-他最喜歡的是,是我的聰明。可是,我也不懂,為何當初他會想要和我分手…」聽到這段話,全場幾乎都安靜不下來了,因為幾乎是同樣的模式,新郎與前妻離婚,與前前女友分手。那麼這段婚姻,還有辦法得到在場來賓的祝福嗎?

 

隨著這兩位女性的發言,腦海中畫面,也像是飄回了十年前交往的過程。隱約中,記得,他似乎也說過類似的話,但一時卻想不起來… 「Hi!」恍惚之中聽到有人叫出她的名字,她也不自覺的站了起來。

 

「是!」話一出口,就察覺叫她的人不是別人,而是司儀。她的本能反應將之前想要用的拙劣手段,一股腦的都忘光了。就在尷尬的不知道要用什麼關係上來說話時,新郎忽然站了起來,走向臺上。

 

「我想,我需要對我一路走來的幾段感情,做個說明。」新郎接下來說的話,卻讓全場人為之動容。

「十年前的第一次婚姻,我追求著美麗的人事物,我認為,找到美麗的另一半,是我人生中最重要的事情。不過,當我發現,美麗不是人生的最終目標時,我選擇離開,並且謹慎的決定婚姻對象,不再輕易結婚。」

 

「當我與Subrina在一起時,我覺得她的事業能力與聰明才智可以幫助我許多方面,不過當我發現她的聰明讓我的生活感到壓力時,我還是選擇離開。」

 

「在她之後,我覺得內涵與興趣相投才是我人生對象的選擇,於是我開始了與前女友的她交往,不過當我發現自己罹患癌症時,那一切都不重要了,於是我再度選擇離開。」

 

「當我經歷了幾年的醫療之後,我覺得不離不棄才是我人生另一半最重要的條件,不是美麗,不是聰明,不是內涵,於是,我選擇了我妻子 …」

 

話說到此,台下的觀眾已經掌聲如雷,她看到就連剛才上臺的前妻與前女友,也都露出了認同並且微笑的表情。

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