不用怕沒人喜歡

他在學校是個蠻出色的男孩子,會玩樂器,街舞也能露幾手,歌唱比賽還拿過獎,籃球更是如數家珍,而且他不像別人,四肢發達,就不太會唸書,他學校的成績總是跟他的屌兒郎噹不成正比,大概是他比較聰明吧! 這麼棒的男生,竟然做了我的男朋友,別說我自已不敢相信,我很多朋友也說,跌破了她們好幾副眼鏡,她們紛紛警告我,要我好好看緊他,免得他被別人追走了,因為現在有不少女生,很喜歡搶別人男朋友。

 

本來以為戀愛是很幸福的一件事,沒想到卻讓我的生活秩序大亂,真希望能發明一種藥,讓他吃了不會變心,我就可以高枕無憂,每天快樂過日子,甚至幸福一輩子 ,現在,自從我認識他以後,整天變的提心吊膽,就怕他會變心,突然告訴我,他要跟我分手,害我連唸書都無法專心。他喜歡你,一定是因為你有許多吸引他的地方,可是,你說了一堆他的優點,卻忘了自已也是很棒的女生,說不定他也在擔心你會變心呢!冷靜的想想看,除了他條件優秀,別的女生的誘惑,你為什麼怕他變心?

 

感情都是3分鐘熱度?

你身邊的親朋好友,有不少人的感情變幻無常,今天分手,明天離婚,所以,嚇到你了,就像有些人父母離婚後,他變得不相信愛情,也是同樣的道理。因為,他並沒有跟你保證永不變心? 有些人交了異性朋友,就要對方簽下保證書,不可以三心二意,或是發下毒誓,變心的人會遭到天打雷劈,問題是,這樣是沒有用的。婚姻都不能百分之百的保證,更別說是異性朋友了。因為,他如果跟你分手,會讓你很沒面子? 或是不好意思嗎?他是全校的風雲人物,認識他的人不少,知道你們再交往的一定也很多,一旦你們分手,就好像你被甩了,怕大家笑你。

 

曾經看過這麼一則新聞,有個女孩相當害怕男友變心,就在香煙裡摻入海洛因給男友吸,希望他會上癮,她再用毒品控制他。男友知道了嚇壞了,女孩的行為也讓朋友退避三舍,試想,事情傳出去後,誰敢在追求這個女孩?所以,現在唯一能做的,就是用心經營這段感情,如同種花一般,給他營養。陽光和雨水。累積彼此更多的嘹解與信任,讓兩人在愛中一起成長。

 

其實,戀愛交友期間,就是在尋找真正適合你的人,分手只是代表你們處不來,不要看的太嚴重,這樣也會給對方壓力的,一段有了壓力的感情,交往時就無法放鬆心情,又怎麼會快樂呢?如果世界上真的有一種藥,可以控制情人的心,我想你也不會接受的,因為他只是被控制在你的身邊,不是真正的愛你。另外,還要努力建立自信,活出自已的美麗,即使有一天你們分手了(其實現在社會分手的比例逐漸升高。),你也能坦然視之,因為你知道自已魅力無窮,不用擔心沒有人喜歡你。

About terence0425leung

哲人無憂,智者常樂。並不是因為所愛的一切他都擁有了,而是所擁有的一切他都愛。
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