即使你耿耿於懷,你又能如何呢?

曾經有一句古語是這麼說的『盡吾志而不能至者,無悔也』也就是說在處理生活中各種大大小小的事情的時候,只要做到『盡人力』,就可以了至於以後的成敗得失,就不必耿耿於懷,這樣才能過得灑脫,這樣才是大智反過來想一想,即使你耿耿於懷,你又能如何呢

 

當你最心愛的東西不小心丟失了,在確定不能找回來的情況下,你就應該保持一種平和的心態, 失去了就是失去了不管你有多麼的喜歡這個東西,不管你是多麼的不希望它丟失,事實就是事實如果它再也不會回來了,與其整天傷心流淚,還不如調整好心情,接受另一個東西

 

不然的話,你的情緒永遠都只會停留在失去的悲傷中,並被這種情緒所困擾這個時候如果不能很好的調節,那麼就會陷入到更深的焦灼感中,那又何必呢?

 

因此人生最重要的就是放下執著,享受現在,想要的追求不到,追求到的不能完全佔有,佔有的又害怕失去,失去的又想再次佔有天天的忙碌就是為了自找煩惱,就如同失眠的人一樣,你越是想睡著卻越是睡不著

 

人生也一樣,你越是刻意的去追求快樂,卻發現快樂跑的越遠,直到有一天,你放棄了所有的追求,靜靜的坐在樹蔭底下,陪著心愛的人喝一杯清水,聽聽愛人的笑聲,你才驚訝的發現,『快樂其實離自己很近』,只是我們一直都不曾認識它,這就是一種放下的快樂,一種恬靜的快樂

 

相反,在你執著追求的時候,反而得不到任何的回報,越是得不到回報,就越是去執著追求,這就陷入了一種惡性循環之中,與其這樣,還不如珍惜眼前的狀況,好好的利用這個狀況,來做一些力所能及的事情

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