愛情木頭人

一顆木頭看來平凡醜陋,但愛人的心卻最保溫也最恆久愛情,因為有很多選擇,所以難以抉擇。當我們常常比較這個比較優、那個比較棒時,其實,身邊原有的幸福已慢慢消逝了。

 

愛情來時總是天雷勾動地火,一發不可收拾,雙方呈現出來的都是「刻意裝飾」的一面。但是當日子一久,愛情慢慢降溫時,也許我們會發現另一半好像變冷漠、變得不浪漫了,這時心裡總會想著,「我跟這木頭在一起,到底當初的選擇是對的嗎?這樣會幸福嗎?他好像已經不愛我了?兩人的溝通似乎斷線了?」

 

其實,愛情總是會隨著時間回歸平淡的,真正的愛情要不斷成長和體會,而不是和別人或從前比較。但是浪漫的愛情小說或是路上來往的情人,他們總是不斷的上演浪漫的戲碼,相較之下好像我們的愛情比別人差了許多,身旁的情人好像也漸漸變成了木頭。可是很多人在經歷過幾次愛情之後,還是會覺得那顆笨笨呆呆的木頭最可靠,雖然外表不那麼炫爛奪目,但是內心卻是真材實料。

 

因為人面對愛情,總會比較和選擇,就算現在的另一半很好了,還是會有其他人比另一半優秀,可是愛情應該是選擇最適合的,而不是選擇最好的。如果能找到「十分情人」,那真的非常幸運﹔如果找到的是個愛情裡的木頭人,雖然只是個「五分情人」,但卻有可能是最適合你的。因為木頭能增值,他堅毅質樸、耐操耐用,另外還外加保溫保固,也許木頭情人不善於製造浪漫,但卻是終身最好的「牽手」和「老仔」!

 

愛情裡有木頭人,不要那麼快的就拿起鋸子砍他頭,因為愛情需要細細品嚐,愛是需要黃燈來歇息思考的。在速食愛情掛帥的今天,美麗的外表和甜言蜜語,常常蒙蔽了愛情的本質,以為「製造浪漫」就是愛情的所有精華。仔細想想,平凡的幸福也會是一種浪漫、生命中對愛情的感動也是一種浪漫,只是牽著手而漫步重遊在初識的小步道上,也是一種浪漫。

 

我認為,熱戀時的浪漫會屬於感官上的享受,但日後的浪漫應該是細心的體會﹔就像校花、校草會是眾人追求的標準情人, 而不起眼的大木頭可能會是個優秀的好丈夫喔!

 

人生,就是因為有了太多的選擇,所以往往追求最好的,而放棄了最適合的。愛情,如果只有一個選擇,甚至要與對方常相廝守,那你會選擇美麗的小花?還是堅固的大樹呢?也許到時候,大家都會更加珍惜身邊的另一半,並且好好的體會對方的愛意吧!雖然木頭有時沈默不多話,但據說沈默的木頭人有時候還挺悶騷的,只是需要另一半慢慢發掘、細細品嚐,這樣的愛情,其實還挺不賴的!

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