女人,長得漂亮不如活得漂亮

女人在感情方面,再優秀也會有被拋棄的可能,永遠不要相信什麼 他不要我,只是我不夠好。這樣的蠢話。事情的真相往往是妳再好也沒有用。甚至問題的症結很可能就是妳太好了,讓男人產生了壓力,他覺得與妳在一起不能彰顯他的強大,他感到了深深的疲憊,渴望掙脫妳的陰影。

 

永遠不要相信堅貞這個詞是用鐵打的。很多時候,之所以堅貞,僅僅是因為誘惑的力量不夠大。古時女人被休,如果寫不來像卓文君那樣聞君有兩意,故來相決絕的詩句,去打動郎君的鐵石心腸,就只能悲戚戚哭回娘家。

 

但現在,棄婦本身已沒有那麼嚴重的悲劇意義。做棄婦不可怕。可怕的是被拋棄後一蹶不振,終生潦倒。棄婦所要做的就是應該不動聲色,繼續生活。越來越覺得,這樣的女人很爭氣,絕不將個人哀怨放到桌面上,即使向隅低泣,也不做祥林嫂。

 

記得很久以前看過一句廣告詞,說愛情之所以美麗,正是因為它是自由選擇的。這句話不無道理。一個人愛誰、不愛誰是自由選擇的。而選擇愛情還是選擇物質,又何嚐不應該是一個人的自由呢?

 

男人追求金錢叫做追求事業,無可厚非;那麼一個女人追求物質,怎麼就成了千古罪人,要遭人唾罵了呢?就算是她想用婚姻來換取自己的優裕生活,只要她不是用卑鄙下流的手段,誰又有資格有權利指責她什麼呢?大家的志向不同而已。你要你的愛情,她要她的物質,人生姿態不一樣,這裡面沒有對與錯是與非的問題。做個堅強,自立,美麗的女人吧。

 

一個人可以生得不漂亮,但是一定要活得漂亮。無論什麼時候,淵博的知識、良好的修養、文明的舉止、優雅的談吐、博大的胸懷,以及一顆充滿愛的心靈,一定可以讓一個人活得足夠漂亮,哪怕妳本身長得並不漂亮。

 

活得漂亮,就是活出一種精神、一種品位、一份至真至性的精彩。一個人祇要不自棄,沒有誰可以阻礙妳的進步。放棄任何無趣、做作,做個真性情的女人。

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