女人,是用來疼的

會疼人的男人,有什麼特點呢?成熟。張愛玲說,丈夫應比妻子大15歲或20歲,這樣才懂得照顧體貼妻子。當然這只是一家之詞,但是會疼人的男人,一定要成熟可依賴,可以是大哥可以是老師,至於該大太太或小太太多少歲那是次要的。

 

細心。你會分辨出妻子16種不同的微笑嗎?

溫柔。梁朝偉那樣深情迷離的眼神,你有嗎?

貌似教育。陳凱歌嚴肅地對赤足下樓的陳紅美人說:地板很涼,要穿鞋子!

抱。男人自以為扛著太太上床浪漫,其實,女人更喜歡你抱著她轉圈。

 

服務。一位女同事常常抒情地倚窗回憶,曾經有個上海男友,每次總是默默地為她剝蝦,再看她優美地咀嚼、咽下、擦嘴、淺笑……還有一個鏡頭揮之不去,是有一次,她鞋濕了,他用吹電風專心地忙碌著……

 

以德報怨。因為小吵,妻子躺在床上賭氣,丈夫坐在床沿認錯,她不領情,用屁股一撞,丈夫摔在地上,不疼,自嘲一笑,起身,仍然為她拉了拉被角,熄了燈,再輕輕地帶到府出去……在廚房裏忙碌著,下了味精,出鍋,上盤,叫一聲老婆你先嘗嘗!

 

呵護。雙手合圍她的雙手,呵氣。額頭相碰。再輕輕刮一下她的鼻子,用手背輕滑她的粉臂。此時無聲勝有聲。摁滅煙頭,說聲:對不起!

 

耳語。女性的耳朵對於低音會產生很大又很快的反應,即使在白天雙方有磨擦,試著在晚上撥通電話給她,一切都會好起來。修飾你的噪音,說話太大聲,女人不會欣賞。

聆聽。這是一種美德。鼓勵妻子吹枕邊風,不要厭煩。實在不想聽了,吻她唇。

 

克服三條病句

克服三條病句。有一項研究顯示,夫妻間每說一句消極的話,就需要說六句積極的話才能夠把它彌補過來。所以切忌病句傷人。

經典病句有三:難道我對你不夠好嗎?算我對不起,可以了吧?行了吧

 

重視三個動作。

輕撫她的頭髮,按摩,托其腰。三個若性非性的動作,很受用。

送別。女人喜歡這種情景,憂傷,但很美。哪怕你討厭逛街,不想奉陪,但如果送她到路口,揮揮手,她也會感動的。

逗她。張藝謀拿手好戲,是讓你感動;馮曉剛拿手好戲,是讓你開心。好丈夫是個好導演,如果你會逗她,她就離不開你。

有關數字。你記得結婚紀念日嗎?你記得岳母的年齡嗎?你記得太太的生日嗎?她的三圍是多少?體重呢?她的內褲是幾號的?    

 

關鍵的數據

背一句臺詞。我很心疼,適當的時候,適當的場合,脫口而出,像瓊瑤劇裏的男主角。總之,疼人是很感性的一件事,一句話、一個動作、一些細節,甚至一個眼神、一絲微笑、一行淚水……找對一個人疼愛,其實也是在疼愛自己。所以,我們都來好好一生。

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