現代新婚蜜語

正所謂「天作之合」,即兩人能「白頭到老」、「恩恩愛愛」真是非上天之作不可。上天要結婚的人不可分離,可能因為人容易與自己的配偶分離,要與自己配偶一生一世並非易事。

 

要擁有一生一世的婚姻,新婚階段尤其重要。現今香港人的結婚年齡已推得很遲。現代年輕男女組織家庭,在適應期中應將對浪漫的期待,逐漸轉換為柴、米、油、鹽、醬、醋、茶的現實生活。

 

故此,希望分享一些維繫婚姻的要訣︰

 

(一)  重新認真重視婚姻中的承諾,結婚時與自己配偶所訂下的是一生一世的盟約,它是歷久不變的,它不是契約,契約會有完結的一天,以個人利益為依歸,但盟約是為雙方幸福而訂的,無分彼此,那又怎能分離呢?

 

(二) 學習尊重,這是易講難做的,因為要真誠地尊重自己的配偶,必先放下自己,明白兩人成為夫婦,是同樣尊貴及珍重的。

 

(三) 信任配偶,這並不是理所當然的,應從一切小事開始,別為了令對方得到暫時的快樂或安心,而說出「美麗的謊言」。在夫婦相處之道中,只有坦蕩蕩的接觸,才會建立比金更堅的信任。

 

(四)  溝通,這是易學難精的,別以為只是一些技巧,其實最重要的是夫婦願為對方開放自己,這才是精誠的溝通、交流。

 

(五)  包容,要與一個與自己不同性別、不同成長背景的人一生一世,雙方都要互相包容,因為只要包容了對方的不足、過失等,才可以一步步邁向二人成一體,無分彼此的幸福境界。

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