成功妻子的生活哲學

一位朋友,每次看見她,永遠是美麗動人~肌膚白皙,髮型完美,身材保養的真的是玲瓏有致,她已經 50幾歲了,看起來卻只有40歲。

 

上星期一位女朋友約我和這位美麗長輩一起喝茶,我準時赴約,到的時候,美麗的長輩已經在座位上等我們了,她瓜子臉,臉上淡淡的妝,學生頭,白襯衫配上長珠,黑色寬管直筒長褲,鞋子是深灰色尖頭半跟鞋,橢圓形的指甲上是珍珠白的指甲油。她抬頭看見我,伸起手來招我過去,我笑著坐下來,一直讚美她是愈來愈迷人了,我們聊了一會兒,約我們見面的女朋友走了進來,我們看見她,兩個人都嚇了一跳。

 

她年齡33歲,是一位資深主管,以前,她不管再忙,一定會適當的打扮自己。今天,她剪短的頭髮非常凌亂,身上白色裙子已 經有一些污點,臉是臘黃的,連口紅都沒上。她坐下後,和我們聊了一下,然後,開始眼框轉紅,很難過的告訴我們她所發生的婆媳問題,還有丈夫外遇的問題。美麗的長輩教了許多與婆婆相處的方式與態度,她一邊聽一邊點頭,有時還難過的低頭拭淚。

 

她哽咽的說:要怎麼樣才能快樂,我現在真的很不快樂。

美麗長輩一聽,滿意的點頭說:你終於知道自己的需要,來.. 聽我說,你們常說我永遠都是美美的,和丈夫感情不錯,嫁入這麼大的家族和親戚們的關係也很好,好像什麼都是現成的,我天生就是這麼幸運的人。

 

如果你們真的這麼認為,那是大錯特錯,任何一個人和家都是需要經營的,這不比在外工作輕鬆,你們以為那些看起來美的不得了的明星,是睡覺起來就是這樣的?你們以為那些美滿的家庭是隨隨便便就這麼美滿?這些外人看起來羨慕的要死的結果,都是需要努力經營的。

 

我的婆媳, 家族關係,都是我努力聯繫做好禮數,才是現在的局面,我的身材是我多年運動、注意飲食,才能維持不變型,我的外貌,是我捨得投資,知道人要衣裝的道理,這就是讓你們這些小女生都羨慕我的原因。

 

我的丈夫,是因為我知道他的喜好,願意 和他一起培養共同的興趣,然後把家理整理的舒服溫暖,做一些好菜餵他吃,讓他看見我,就忘記在外工作的辛苦,看見我就等於看見溫柔與美麗,所以,結婚30 幾年,他還是會牽著我的手散步。

 

現在的小女生大多都不知道經營生活與婚姻的方法,就像你,和婆婆為了相同的問題吵了幾年還是沒結果,因為婆婆的關係,丈夫回家就看見你一臉臭臉,說話也沒好態度,老婆兇,小孩又吵,你因為要上班回家又帶孩子,家裡亂七八糟沒整理,還有,你看看自己那麼漂亮的一張臉,現在變的像黃臉婆似的,我問你,哪一個男 人喜歡待在這種地方?

 

我聽的入神,實在是太有道理了,許多人進入家庭後,往往會迷失自己,因為家計,因為孩子,自己會在不知不覺中改變,但是,這些改變不見得是丈夫與孩子希望的。然後,自己又因為犧牲太多,變的非常不快樂,最後 又把這些怨氣抒發在家庭裡,變成惡性循環。

 

美麗長輩又說:“沒錯,女人就是萬能的,如果你選擇婚姻,一但進入家庭,你 就是一位女超人,要照顧好孩子,體貼先生,伺候公婆,打點自己,你當然可以要求你的先生幫你分擔,如果他願意,最好,如果他不願意,那沒辦法,自己還是要做。

 

最重要的,永遠不要忘記自己是誰,如果你要快樂,自己就要對自己好,常常 寵自己,這一點都不算什麼,女人能恣意打扮的時間就只有一段,時光是很匆促的,轉眼間,你就會發現,有些衣服你已經不敢穿了,有些東西是不知不覺間錯過,拉也拉不回來。

 

每個月編一個預算,在預算內盡量的花,打扮自己,要當黃臉婆, 以後多的是時間,要省省別的地方,不要全部都在虐待自己。

 

要快樂,要改變,先從自己著手,你有了改變,小孩,先生會感覺的到,家庭的氣氛也會跟著改變,這是經驗談。

 

我們在這3個多小時的聊天,學習到一個成功妻子的生活哲學,原來,什麼都是不能偷懶的——特別是經營婚姻。

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