心靈小品

總會輪到你

銀行內有許多窗口。每個窗口,都站滿了人。人們總是有意識地排到隊伍最短的視窗去,那樣可以節約時間。有時,你是幸運的,但很多時候,隊伍排的短,並不意味著很快就能輪到你。

 

也許在你的前面,有幾個人記不住密碼,他們會一遍遍地按,然後要求掛失;還有人要取很多錢,工作人員會忙上半天,或者,他們會和工作人員爭吵起來,沒完沒了。此時,其他視窗的處理速度反而顯得更快了。於是,你會後悔自己站錯了隊,想換一個隊伍,但是已經不可能了。

 

還有更可氣的,你進了大廳,認準一個視窗,排啊排,終於輪到自己了,但工作人員告訴你:對不起,用信用卡取錢,請到其他視窗。

 

排隊其實就是人生,在我們的面前有很多未可知的因素。你站隊的時候,不可能知道前面的人存錢、取錢需要多長時間。就如我們的人生長度取決於許多因素,自己並不能左右。

 

我們必須有豁達的胸懷,平靜的心態,選擇隊伍時,要考慮到別人可能很快超過你,他們得到自己想要的,吹著口哨離開了,但你無法重來,你只能慢慢等著,需要耐心。

 

我們還要有從頭再來的勇氣,假如你排錯了隊,你不能氣餒,請看準哪個才是真正適合你的視窗,不要一錯再錯。慢慢排著,總會輪到你。

 

人生是一種承受

人生是一種承受,需要學會支撐。支撐事業,支撐家庭,甚至支撐起整個社會,有支撐就一定會有承受,支撐起多少重量,就要承受多大壓力。從某種意義上說,生活本身就是一種承受。

 

承受痛苦

痛苦就人生而言,常常扮演著不速之客的角色,往往不請自到,有些痛苦來的溫柔,如同漫漫降臨的黃昏,在不知不覺間你會感到冰冷和黑暗;有些痛苦來的突然,如同一陣驟雨、一陣怒濤,讓我們來不急防範;當我們屈服於痛苦的時候,他可能使我們沮喪、潦倒,甚至在絕望中走向滅亡。當我們承受了痛苦,我們就會變的堅強自信,那麼,此時,痛苦就變成了一筆物價的財富。

 

承受幸福

幸福需要享受,但有時候,幸福也會輕而易舉的擊敗一個人。當幸福突然來臨的時候,人們往往會被幸福的漩渦淹沒,從幸福的顛峰上跌落下來。承受幸福,就是要珍視幸福而不是一味的沉澱其中,如同面對一罈陳年老酒,一飲而盡往往會爛醉如泥不省人事,只有細品慢咂,才會品出真正的香醇甜美。

 

承受平淡

人生中,除了幸福和痛苦,平淡佔據了我們生活的大部分生活。承受平淡,同樣需要一份堅韌和耐心,平淡如同一杯清茶,點綴著生活的寧靜和溫馨。在平淡的生活中,我們需要承受淡淡的孤寂與失落,承受揮之不去的枯燥與沉寂,還要承受遙遙無期的等待與無奈。

 

承受孤獨

會使我們倍加珍惜友誼;

承受失敗,會使我們的信心更加堅定與深厚;

承受責任,會使我們體會到誠實與崇高;

承受愛情,則會使我們心靈更臻充盈、完美。

當我們終於學會心平氣和的去承受時,那麼,我們的人生就達到了一定的高度。

 

失去

年輕的時候搜集,年老的時候丟棄。這已經夠悲哀的了,而人生更悲哀的是,活到最後,連丟棄的能力也會失去。所有我們追求的,最後都會失去。而人最難能可貴的特質在於明知會失去,卻仍勇於追求。每個人的一生,前半生要攻,後半生要守。

 

人生應當是得而復失,失而復得。所謂得而復失,就是先追求有,等到有了之後,隨著年歲漸老,體力衰退是必然的,我們精明的計算功力會逐步減弱,於是年輕時的各項儲蓄逐漸失去。

 

至於失而復得,指的是到了晚年,我們的記憶在衰退之中,然而人生智慧仍在累積,特別是對人生通達思想的瞭然,對得失的瀟灑心態,實在均非年輕人所能企及,這種「只是近黃昏」之前的「夕陽無限好」,正是人生登臨絕頂之後的高點,人生的豐美,還有什麼能比的呢?

 

所以不要把「失去」當成人生的大沮喪、大挫折和大失敗。「舊的不去,新的不來」,原來失去是為了前面還有一個全新的我正等著。世界永無盡頭,人生自然要永遠向前看,「失去」也就變得微不足道了。

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