欣賞自己

在這個世界上,別人怎麼看你,其實並不重要。因為好多時候,你沒有必要看別人的臉色生活,那樣做只會讓你徒增壓力,每個人都是一個小世界,而自己的心就是統治它的君主。明白了這點,你會叫煩惱走開;明白了這點,你就會叫壓抑遠遁;明白了這點,你就不必在意飛短流長;明白了這點,你才能從容面對一切。

欣賞自己,就要把自己描繪成一幅畫。你可以讓畫面上長出綠草紅花,你可以叫流水汩汩,你可以讓山林幽幽,你可以讓陽光溫柔地照亮這一方天地。一個能在自己的精神世界自由地行走的人,無論他是富有還是貧窘,快樂與自信始終是他行走在滾滾紅塵中的形象。

欣賞自己,就要把自己想象成一支歌。這種歌聲具有穿透力,能讓你在春天感受鮮綠的生機,能讓你在夏天體驗火紅的激情,能讓你在秋天觀賞金黃的美景,能讓你在冬天觸摸雪白的詩意……世界上,沒有誰能拒絕快樂的歌曲,你如果真的把自己當成這樣一種聲音,那麼你的存在,也會讓這世界多了一分叫人難忘的美麗。

欣賞自己,就要把自己塗抹成一首詩。怎麼解讀你,那是別人的事情:有人喜歡,那是因為他的心靈可以與你共鳴;有人厭惡,那也正常,那是因為他還缺乏品味你的知識素養……只要你充滿真誠,相信越來越多的讀者能看見你語言裏包涵的雋永。

欣賞自己,並不意味著你的自負。一個不懂得欣賞自己的人,她離快樂的距離會很遠:她會失去自己的自由奔放的個性,讓自己小心翼翼地在意別人挑剔的眼光,過分在意自己一城一地的短暫得失,痛苦會如蛇舌一樣不時舔舔她的心。一個不懂得欣賞自己的人,她還會無來由地貶低自己,一個自己都看不到自己魅力的人,別人怎麼能欣賞你?

欣賞自己,就可以清醒地認識自己。雖說“旁觀者清,當局者迷”,但只要靜下心來想想,這世界上,每個人都有自己一攤子繞不開玩不轉的事,誰還有那麼多的精力來“關註”你。只要你細心琢磨就會發現:每個人對自己的思想、動機、行為等等是最熟悉的,熟悉得就像自己有時不得不面對以及撫摩自己的裸體一般。要持久地欣賞自己,你就得不斷地完善自己,使自己朝著自己向往的理想方向大踏步行進!

欣賞自己,會讓自己變得大度豁達。在這世界上,最能左右自己心境的人其實還是自己。人生在世,草木一秋。只有能夠真正做到心平氣和,才會叫每一個平淡的日子慢慢地生動起來,才會頭腦清醒地去審視自己,才會把一些名利得失看成過眼雲煙,才會去幹自己想幹也能幹的事情。請相信:欣賞自己,就是幸福的開始。

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