放下堅持,學習放棄

「堅持到底,永不放棄」,是我們從小到大學習的道理。只要努力、堅持,不輕言放棄;我們就能夠獲得最終成功。很多時我們認為放棄是氣餒、沒志氣的行徑,是一種負面的心態;一種未戰先輸的表現…但原來放棄,比堅持還要擁有更大的決心,更大的勇氣。

依舊的付出,依舊的堅持,依舊的執著,當這一切早已變成習慣,縱使,你只是單方面不停的關懷對方,縱使,你只是單方面不停的愛護對方,縱使,你只是單方面不停的掛念對方,縱使,你的心早已被對方傷透…放棄仍然很困難,因為我們不願改,亦不願變。

我們習慣了,所以會一直堅持,放棄,卻要從新適應,面對很多未知的因素,它就如賭注般。放棄他,可能下個會更好,放棄他,可能下個會更差…因此我們樂於安於現狀,沒有人喜歡一個對未來沒有把握的轉變…於是我們開始自欺欺人,不願放棄、放開眼前的所有,因為我們沒有勇氣面對充滿變幻的未來,所以選擇了逃避、選擇了盲目地堅持下去。

在愛情中,堅持是固執,放棄是勇敢。離場那位不一定是半途而廢,亦不一定是沒盡力去爭取那份幸福,放棄、放開手中擁有的,是愛的一種,而且比堅持需要更大的勇氣。當你感到疲憊、當你用盡一切方法去留在他的身邊時,為什麼不偉大、不勇敢一點,選擇放棄;放下這個痛苦的包袱,讓相方都能夠重新自由地飛翔?

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