婚姻必經7個階段(別讓愛情死在半路上)

兩個人從最初的心動到攜手走進婚姻,這修成的“正果”固然來之不易,但更大的考驗還在前方。激情、磨合、叛逆、危機……每一份美滿的婚姻背後都需要經歷特定的階段,都有必須面對的坎坷,只要經受住這些考驗,便能收獲一份相濡以沫的愛情。

階段一:激情期
激情期主要是新婚時期,新婚前的甜蜜,有時候甚於戀愛期,這時候對婚姻充滿了興奮和好奇,興趣和親昵更是填滿著夫妻的生活。在婚後的一年內,愛情都是 生活的重心。但是很多人卻沒有將一些觀念轉換過來,比如結婚後,不再是“我”,凡事首先要想到的,是“我們”,這時候需要夫妻間相互磨合,培養共同的生活 習慣。

階段二:磨合期
結婚後的一到兩年,最初時的熱情在一點點的流失,婚後角色的轉變,讓失望和衝突成為了這個階段的主題。夫妻雙方會漸漸發現對方的不完美,甚至和婚前所 認識的那個人完全不同。對方的一些缺點和習慣可能讓你無所適從,但是既然選擇了共同面對將來的生活,那就要學會去處理這些問題,打破那些不切實際的幻想, 多尊重對方、為對方著想,才能為將來打下堅實的基礎。

階段三:叛逆期
兩人的矛盾,可能會在結婚後的三到四年內愈演愈烈。夫妻雙方可能會經常吵架,一方甚至產生外遇的傾向,導致雙方對彼此的忠誠都開始產生懷疑。這時候千萬不要輕易放棄你們的感情,也不要去尋找新歡舊愛,互相尊重和理解,一定能幫你們挺過這段困難的時期。

階段四:合作期
這個時候,孩子成為了你們家庭的重心,為了孩子的將來,也為了家庭和美滿和睦,你們開始不懈的努力,共同的創造著你們的美好未來,這個時期一般會在結 婚的五年後到來。但是忙碌的生活,可能讓你們的愛情一點點地流失,所以,就算忙得不可開交,也別忘了偶爾重溫你們熱戀時的浪漫,將心中的愛表達出來。

階段五:重組期
孩子漸漸長大和懂事,你們的家庭也已經變得十分的穩固,這個時候你們愛情也已經悄然的轉化成了親情,兩個人的相處少了很多爭吵,多了幾分理解和謙讓, 這個時候,你們共同走過了婚姻十五年的歷程。歲月開始在你們身上留下印記,所以為了健康,兩個人別忘了一起多做做運動,一家人的旅行和野餐,能讓你們的婚 姻和家庭更加的美滿和幸福。

階段六:危機期
婚後二十年,婚姻的危機也會伴隨而來。你們的人生可能會經歷一些重大的變故,例如父母的疾病或者離世、事業上的瓶頸等等,不幸的陰雲開始籠罩在家庭的 上空。面對生活上的一些突變和困境,更需要夫妻二人共同面對,相互的安慰和支持,才能夠幫助你們走過這段陰霾。那時候,你們的感情才能堅如磐石。

階段七:完美期
一共度過了婚後的二十五個春秋,你們的婚姻建設階段已經結束,你們已經完全的了解了對方。逐漸步入晚年的你們,也許會感受到生命的悲涼,但是一同回首你們一路走來的風風雨雨,一點一滴收獲的溫暖和幸福,會讓你們感慨萬千,與你相伴,此生足矣。

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