人生就是放棄和選擇

行囊,裝得太滿會很沉很重,一個生命背負不了太多的沉重。拖著疲憊的身軀走在人生大道上,我們註定要拋棄很多。面對色彩斑斕的人生,面對五光十色生活,果敢的放棄是一種清醒的選擇。面對誘惑,只有學會放棄那些本該放棄的,生命才會輕裝上陣,一路高歌;面對困惑,只有學會走出煩惱的困擾,生活才會倍感絢麗,朝氣蓬勃。

生命中,值得珍惜的東西很多,卻不是每個人都懂得選擇;生活中,值得追求的東西很多,但若糾纏在那些毫無結果的事情上,拚命地追求那些本該放棄的,卻又迫不及待地放棄本該苦苦追求的,到頭來必定竹籃打水一場空。

如果說執著是一種精神,那麼放棄則是一種融匯勇氣、胸懷和智慧的境界。得不到的或不該得的就該果斷的放棄。匆匆的生命,有限的人生,不允許我們四面出擊,分散自己的時間和精力,在大好時光中忙忙碌碌、終無所成。

執迷不悟是一意孤行的固執。不如正視現實,咬咬牙勇敢地放棄那些力不從心卻又苦撐硬撐的執著。清醒選擇之後,明白了自己意志的支點,一切都會回歸單純而明朗的寧靜。

拋卻擾心的煩惱,忘卻失敗的沮喪,封藏痛苦的記憶。堅定地把許多的過去踩在腳下、留在身後,選擇了瞬間的清醒,就等於選擇了瞬間的成長。

及時調整心態,坦然面對失去,正確看待擁有。讓胸襟更豁達一些,讓眼光更長遠一些,為了成就一番事業,為了實現人生的目標。經常為自己整整枝幹、理理頭緒,排除那些不必要的流連與顧盼,時常鞭策敲打那個自我,讓自己清醒地集中精力於人生的追求。

人生猶如大海,廣博深邃而又神秘莫測。我們每個人就象小孩兒一樣,在海邊跑來跑去,尋找著自己美麗的貝殼。

有的人,只要是自己喜歡的,就都要攬在懷裡,而當發現無法帶走全部時,就在取捨之間猶豫不決;有的人,只要找到一個或者幾個自己喜歡的,就會心滿意足地離去,可以永遠不再回到海邊,只因已經擁有屬於自己的貝殼。

有的人,東挑西選也沒有發現自己最喜歡的貝殼,帶著無奈空手而歸;有的人,不滿足於沙灘上已有的貝殼,義無反顧地走向大海,不僅找到了自己鍾愛的貝殼,還意外發現了珍珠和寶貝。

如果是我,我會如何去選擇自己的人生。回眸過去的人生旅程,每個人無時無刻不在面臨選擇。其實,選擇一個怎樣的人生,取決於自己。上天是公平的,因為他賜予每個人的機會是均等的。同時,上天也賜予每個人至高無上的權利——選擇。

選擇,不會有誰可以替代,只有學識能夠做出善意地提醒。人生會因選擇的不同而產生不同的結果,而這,正是先天的性格和後天的學識共同作用的結果。生命的價值就在於她的一次性,永遠沒有後悔的餘地。

所有的快樂和傷痛,所有的微笑和淚水,只能代表過去。選擇了生就放棄了死,選擇了希望就放棄了失望,選擇了明天就別再留戀今天。

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