愛情靠的是演技

一個男性友人因婆媳問題離了婚,他說他前妻平常也不和他爸媽住一起,只不過是逢年過節陪他回家看看父母,卻總是待不住,每次都臭著一張臉急著離開。「一年也不過就見個幾次面,住在一起沒幾天,再怎麼不開心難道就不能演一下嗎?」友人聽來有些哀怨。

另一個朋友嫁給他大學時代的男友,婚姻幸福美滿,而且在他們剛交往的時候,她就展現了過人的智慧。我還記得她這麼跟我說:「我男友媽媽是學佛的,老實說我一點興趣也沒有,但去她家一定要裝作很有興趣聽她講佛法,陪著她,她就很開心啊!演一下,她就開心,她開心我男友也開心,我讓他們開心,他們就更喜歡我了,人家喜歡我,我更開心。」果然註定是和樂融融的一家人啊!

我們以為愛情要真誠,卻發現能夠走得長久的愛情靠的是演技。而且這演技得爐火純青、不露痕跡。當收到自己不那麼喜歡的禮物,只能演得很欣喜,感謝歡喜的表情絕對是收禮者對送禮者最好的回應。

有些事情其實沒那麼嚴重的,但是為了嚴正表達這是本人的地雷,得演得誇張一點憤怒一點,這樣對方才會心生警惕。平常在 家都不做家事的,去男友家一定要到廚房幫忙,飯後記得洗碗,扮演一個未來好媳婦的模樣。明明內心有許多挑剔,但在外人面前總得給男人保留面子,演出一付夫 唱婦隨的賢伉儷戲碼。

不只愛情靠演技,性愛也得靠演技。小禎結婚一年多,性生活卻很悲慘,她老公雖然人高馬大,但卻不是床上的猛男。原來他不知為何產生心因性陽痿,很想做卻怎麼也硬不起來,狀況時好時壞。

男人最重視自己的性能力和性表現,所以小禎再怎麼樣焦慮也得演得十分大器大愛,像個天使般呵護著他、鼓勵著他,絕對不能刺傷他的自尊心。

男人愛面子不願意去看醫生做諮詢,小禎只好繼續當他的天使,偶而硬起來更要繼續發揮演技給他信心,小禎自嘲演技差不多可以媲美AV女優了。

但除了這種辛酸的演技之外,有時候女人在床上發揮演技並不是完全為了男人的自尊心。其實自己的淫蕩呻吟是有催情效果的,尤其當男伴又表現得不怎麼樣的時候,女人總要邊演邊讓自己入戲吧!男人倒不必去追究女人究竟有沒有高潮,基本上她願意演出高潮就已經是展現努力和誠意、可喜可賀了。

愛情雖然靠演技,但還是不能忽略真心。演技終究只是某些時候維持兩人愛情關係的一種手段而已,尺度若拿捏得不好,愛情喜劇也會變悲劇。

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哲人無憂,智者常樂。並不是因為所愛的一切他都擁有了,而是所擁有的一切他都愛。
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