孩子一旦被寵壞,再多的錢也無法解決問題

有一個孩子從小被父母嬌生慣養,要多少錢就給多少,孩子還在讀書時,一個月就要花一萬多。他父親覺得不對勁,就跟他說:“從此以後不給你錢了,還要把你送去西藏當兩年兵。”當兵回來之後,他還是跟父親要錢,他父親狠下心不給他。

結果他雇了殺手來殺他的父親,他跟這個殺手說:“待會兒有一個人會從那裏走出來,你就殺死這個人。”他對整個情況描述得一清二楚,這個殺手說:“你怎麼這麼清楚?這究竟是什麼地方?”他說:“這是我家。”“那要殺的人是誰?”“是我父親。”

如果我們沒有把孩子教育好,這出戲就有可能搬到我們的面前來演。他不只把他父親殺了,因為他父親保險箱的鑰匙在他母親手裏,所以他把母親也殺了。你看,孩子一旦被寵壞,再多的錢也無法解決問題。

所以,為人家長每天都盡心盡力賺錢給孩子花,是不是愛護?假如這個愛護沒有智慧,則愛之足以害之,把孩子寵壞了,不得了!

閩南話說:“寵豬舉灶,寵子不孝,寵妻吵鬧,寵夫半夜爬起來哭,寵女兒難入人家的家教。”

地方俚語都含有很深的人生智慧,這些都是老祖宗傳下來的,都是去蕪存菁,一句話對人生就有很大的提醒。“寵豬舉灶”,寵豬寵到它跑到你的廚房,把你的灶都掀掉了,這句話多有道理!

所以,教育孩子一定要非常有原則,不然會被孩子摸得一清二楚。豬都不能寵,人更不能寵,因為被寵的孩子就會不孝。

我曾經聽一個朋友講,有一對夫婦養了六個兒子,給他們買了六間房子,娶了六個老婆,把他們都安排好了。這樣的父母偉不偉大?結果下場如何?自己沒地方住。這樣是愛護孩子嗎?是害了孩子。

從小到大什麼都幫兒子做好了,那兒子只會生起一個態度:父母幫我做的都是應該的。到最後,大兒子還有一點良心,在一個豬舍旁邊蓋了一個小木屋,給父母住。

鄰居看不下去了,就鼓動他們去起訴兒子。要不要告?“居家戒爭訟,訟則終兇”,假如真的告贏了,六個兒子分配下去,每人養兩個月,這樣養起來是什麼結局?

可能媳婦把飯丟過去,“趕快吃!”本來還可以活十年、二十年,結果被六個兒子奉養之後,每天都被氣個半死,反而只能活三年。早知今日,何必當初!所以,教育孩子要以德為本,才是真正愛護他。

寵孩子正是害孩子。

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