女人婚後千萬不能碰的三個雷區

虜獲男人的心容易,但要長期保鮮,卻很難。時間是一個儈子手,它能在你不痛不癢不溫不火的情況下,猛然從頭到腳澆上一盆冷水,讓你突然清醒過來,原來所謂的人生早已被改寫,讓你驚慌失措。感情初萌發之時,男子溫潤如玉,女子溫婉動人,是什麼使得你們最後話不投機半句多?婚後女人不能觸碰的三個雷區。

一,動不動就翻你的情史。
女人受挫,容易在心理留下疤痕,無論時間如何的洗滌,都無法洗去。面對關心自己,疼愛自己的人,容易掏心窩子。對於自己的過去,無論翻多少次都不會覺得累,也不會覺得疲憊。

過去的事情,就讓它過去吧。掏出來之後,男人也就將你看得透徹,多多少少還會成為男人心裏的疙瘩。不要以為男人真不介意你的過去,在真相與現實面前,他寧願你從來沒有那些過去,也寧願自己從來不知道你受到過那些傷害。

二,婆婆再不好,也別對外宣揚。
大抵很多人都覺得婆婆是非常難以進行溝通的人。心裏就是有什麼小心思,也不想讓婆婆知道。婆媳矛盾就是解決了,女人心裏也不會真的就消散了。隨著時間,矛盾次數積累得越深,也就越覺得委屈。

女人不像男人那樣有抗壓能力,更不像男人那樣能將情緒徹底發泄掉。所以,在遇到親朋好友時,很容易在別人面前“口不遮攔”,將所有的不滿和不情願都傾訴出來。

縱然婆婆與你有再深的過節,也別在別人面前宣揚她的不是,以為打她的臉,等於打你丈夫的臉,時間久了,你說的那些話總有一天會傳到你婆婆和你兒子的耳朵裏,到時候,所有的言語都會成為一根根反刺紮入你的皮膚。

三,死抓著男友的過去盤問。
不管你是有心還是無心的,收口吧,在這件事上。男人不願說的事,他認為那是過去了,沒有必要再提,提過了也無益。當你詢問他的過去時,他不回答你,又怕你覺得在隱瞞什麼。回答你,又怕你還當真。

何苦這樣為難自己,為難他。當你和他在一起時,就說明你們之間的感情是純凈的,完全沒有必要將過去的殘根拉進來,污染你們幹凈的感情。別讓他的前任成為你的假想敵,也別讓他的前任影響了你們之間的感情。過去的事與過去的人,與你們之間的感情本就任何關聯。安安心心地享受你們之間的感情吧,那才是最重要的。

不能對敵人說的話,也別對你的朋友說。不能對朋友說的話,那也就不要對你的親人說,不能對你親人說的話,還是留在自己的肚子裏吧。女人若能管住自己的嘴,那麼感情的衰老速度至少要減半。總之該說的說,不該說的堅決不說。

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