有些事,經歷了才懂得……

1.大學前我和同桌上課拉過手,掐過腿。現在我的旁邊每節課是不同的面孔,打了招呼,下課卻忘記了這張臉。

於是,我聽懂了《同桌的你》。

2.父母送我去大學報到,臨走的時候,我媽來和我告別,我問我爸呢,我媽說“你爸怕你哭,就沒來。”大二暑假我回家,我媽無意中說“其實你爸當時就在馬路對面。你轉身進學校,你爸就哭了。”

於是,我懂了,在成長面前,老爸也是脆弱的。

3.大學報到,我父母陪同,鋪床、買用品。我有個室友,自己自己在那邊鋪床,後來我才知道他是自己來報到的,我很佩服他,也很佩服父母親這麼放得開孩子,自愧不如。又一次吃飯,我和這個室友說,我很佩服你自己來學校。他說:“你羡慕我獨立,我羡慕你身邊很溫暖。”

然後,我懂得,當我看別人的時候,別人也在看我,為何我要忽略自己?

4.剛上大一時候,室友在別人慫恿下果斷踹了在外地的現任女友,坐了2個小時地鐵去松江向另一女生表白,無奈慘痛被拒。大學過半,至今仍孤身一人。

於是,我懂了,在沒有確定下家之前,不要放了上家。

5.大一的時候有一次拉肚子,給媽媽打電話不停的訴苦。大二的時候我一個室友打球咬掉了一塊舌頭,縫上了有一段不能說話。後來我問他你媽知道麼,他說沒告訴,怕她擔心。

於是,我懂了,我的痛哭會被距離放大,千里之外,媽媽比我更痛苦。

6.大一下學期的時候給媽媽打電話,有段時間她沒說幾句就放了電話,她說她在打麻將。寒假回家的時候我爸告訴我,其實媽媽那段時間正在住院,半個月裏,每次接我電話之前,她就叫病房裏的人不要說話,也不敢和我聊很長時間,怕露餡。

於是,我懂得,有時候隱瞞,也是一種愛。

7.大學之前,自己只管學習,髒衣服一仍有人洗,餓了張嘴有飯吃。那時候我還嫌衣服少,飯不好吃。上了大學,看著床底下塞得一坨坨的髒衣服,捶了捶耀只能繼續一件一件的洗。盯著食堂的飯菜,歎了歎氣,只能硬著頭皮放下嚥。

於是,懂了,以為平平常常的東西,等自己完全承擔了,就覺得不那麼容易了。

8.高中時候上課偷摸看個青年文摘、當代歌壇,愜意的不得了。一邊看著小說,一遍提防著老師,看的也不亦樂乎。上了大學,偶然一次經過報亭,買了本青年文摘,給了老闆三塊,老闆說三塊五。我問什麼時候漲了得,老闆說漲了有一年多了。我才發現,大學之後,再沒買過青年文摘。

於是,我懂得,是不是有些老友和快樂我們慢慢忘記了?

9.學校開學很早,基本年後過不了十五就要上學。今年正月十五,和奶奶視頻。我說:奶奶,你看你大孫子都長這麼多鬍子了。我不知奶奶聽見沒有,她就在那邊笑,我在這邊卻哭了。

於是,我懂得,時間和距離向前延伸,最終會失去些什麼,所以要珍惜。

10. 剛上大學的時候,我覺得自己是個異類:晚上在走廊上校內,路人甲乙經過,大聲說校內網真無聊,然後我就趕緊把本合上了;我在自習室吃茶葉蛋,路人甲乙討論,茶葉蛋真垃圾,又沒營養還有毒,我把半個蛋收到塑膠袋裏了;我用電腦上QQ,路人甲乙又討論,QQ真山寨,我習慣MSN,我臉紅的把QQ關了,說實話MSN咋用我都不知道;我拿著4級單詞背的勁勁的,路人甲乙在旁邊議論我覺得GRE和TOFUL高分還是有規律的,我無顏的收起了英語書;這個世界太多路人了,所以我更習慣走胡同,因為人少,但是胡同越走越窄,往往還是死胡同,所以只能靠邊走馬路,把中間讓給浩浩蕩蕩的路人,但是在路邊經常掉進下水道裏,或者僥倖逃過井蓋卻不留神撞在了樹上。後來,看看自己,雖然沒有什麼大鳴大放,但我的大學生活同樣讓“路人”們羡慕。

於是,我懂了,好好走自己的路,一個勁的看別人,弄不好就摔了。還是仔細認真的看著自己的路。

11.以前為了賴一會床,相處各種理由請假,拉肚子、鼻子出血、感冒。。。但請假條落款都是我本人的名字。上了大學之後不用理由,想睡就睡,點名讓別人頂替喊一聲,弄到最後,把自己的名字都弄丟了。

於是,明白了,擔當啊,越來越不敢。

12.高中的時候熬不住了就想再堅持一下,到時候考個大學上上就得了!大學了,看著自己的專業,看看以前的同學出國的出國,獎學金的獎學金,然後開始罵自己,當初怎麼不再多堅持一下。

於是,懂得了,人的確有無限的潛力,如果以現狀看從前。

13.上大學前生活在父母的臂膀下,看病可以走關係找好醫生,上學可以走後門進好班,去哪里父母和朋友打個照顧就能得到照顧。大學後父母罩不到我,去哪里不僅要排隊,還要被強行插隊。

於是,就懂了,常常自以為是,看不起父母,其實自己什麼都不是。

14.以前學習,一學期一本書,然後還要好好保管,高考前還要重新看。書裏的內容多年後翻看,還會有回憶。大學之後,一學期一本書,用過之後就賣掉,想想自己學過的書是什麼樣封面,沒有什麼印象。准備考研重新看的時候,感覺怎麼都是新書。

於是,就懂得了,有時候,重複讓人踏實,新鮮反而讓人無感。

15.硬著頭皮進大學學經濟,雖然在別人看來我這個學校的經濟有多麼多麼牛,其實冷暖自知。剛上大學的時候我想出國,成績不行想轉專業,轉專業未果准備考公務員,***越來越激烈越來越黑於是準備CPA。開始我想環遊世界,後來想賺大錢,後來想有穩定的工作,再後來希望順利找到好工作。我的夢想在越來越萎縮,卻被認為越來越實際,務實。

於是,我懂了,在現實和夢想之間,我們都是從夢想趨向於現實的以至於越來越偏離,等現實滿足了,再看夢想,已經遠的看不到了。

16.大學之前,談戀愛要偷偷摸摸的,遮遮掩掩,不能見光。大學之後,單身的要偷偷摸摸,遮遮掩掩,不能見光。

於是,我懂了,有時候,合理不合理只是一線之隔。

17.高中的時候給老師起外號,私下裏同學都這麼叫。大學了,想給老師起外號,卻發現根本不知道老師大號。

於是,懂了,有些幼稚的遊戲,已經玩不下去了。

18.剛上初中那年,twins出道,青春可愛,不少同學是他們的粉絲。高三那年,阿嬌豔照門,偷偷摸摸各種搜集豔照互相傳閱,純潔不再,難以相信。大二這年,阿sa宣佈離婚,鏡頭前流淚,不舍婚姻。

於是,懂了,在成長的,不只我一個人。

19.初二的時候,張國榮從高樓跳下。冬天,梅豔芳也離去。大一下學期某個英語課,用手機上網,知道了從小聽到大的新聞聯播再不會有羅京的聲音。

於是,懂得了,長大了,不知道有多少人要離我們而去。

20.高中的時候能跑能跳都得憋著,能說會唱都得忍著,高考只考語數外史地政理化生。大家都是同一籠包子,看上去一樣。大學裏,玩的就是素質,有特長就能獨當一面,雖然近來的時候都是包子,但就看哪個包子褶兒多,哪個包子長得像漢堡,拼個性。
於是,懂了,就算自己哪哪都短,關鍵時刻還是得有一特長。

21.高中的時候只能穿校服,走到哪年齡大的就叫我小弟,年齡小的就叫我哥哥。大學沒校服,地鐵上半老徐娘都管我叫大哥,初中生還喊我叔叔,還得硬著頭皮答應。

於是,懂了,實質上,我們早就不是孩子了。

22.高中時候看只看本地天氣預報。大學了看兩個天氣預報除了所在的城市,總也不忘看看家裏的天氣。

於是,懂得了,走得再遠,還是掛念那個不怎麼繁華的家鄉。

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