60歲後,關係再好,也不要走得太近,否則受傷的就是自己

人和人相處,是一門學問。離得太遠了,關係就淡了;靠得太近了,恩恩怨怨就來了。人生如尺,要有度。感情如面,別越界。關係再好,也不要走得太近,否則最後也只能漸行漸遠了。六十歲以後,跟誰走得太近,都會是種傷害!

朋友之間,太近紮人。言語上不注意,金錢上沒分寸,行動裡不知尊重,時間久了,誰都會遠離。家人之間,孩子的小家庭你非要介入,老伴的資訊天天看,最終感情卻成了隔閡。所以,要想和家人、親朋好友之間和睦相處,就要保持一定的距離。

1、老伴之間,給彼此留一點空間
夫妻之間,關係很親密,但這並不意味著兩者之間就不能有些小秘密。特別是在興趣愛好上有差別的老夫妻,不能強求對方要和自己有一樣的愛好。要保持一定的距離,可以有各自的朋友圈子,和睦愉快相處。

2、子女之間,保持"一碗湯"的距離
越來越多的老人能夠接受與子女之間保持一定的距離。生活上,和子女保持「一碗湯」的距離,能常去看望他們,給他們送去一碗湯;心理上,也要和子女保持「一碗湯」的距離,不會因為太熱而燙到他們,也不會因為太冷而涼了心意。

3、親人之間,不要太隨意
和親人相處,不要太隨意。親人家中的事情,人家願意說的就好好聽著,不願意說的就少打聽,不要干涉,更加不要肆無忌憚。

4、朋友之間,時刻牢記無所求
有些人和朋友關係親近一點,就開始有各種要求,如果朋友不滿足,就抱怨。真正的友情是純粹的,不帶功利的。朋友幫你是情分,不幫你是本分,不能用道德去綁架他們。

5、陌生人之間,見人宜說三分話
和不熟悉的人相處,就算第一印象再好,也不能沒有分寸。不要試圖窺探別人的隱私;說話留三分餘地;不要強人所難;說話不能不看時機。

60歲以後,愛情、親情、友情,情情珍貴,所以和任何人都不要走得太近,給自己留一點緩和的餘地,給別人一些自己的私人空間,這也許就是最美的距離了。不必靠太近,各自都有各自的生活,不必離太遠,我們的生活圈還有交際。

距離產生美,其實就是,彼此尊重,彼此珍惜。

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