為什麼年薪百萬以上的人,總不願娶漂亮女人?

發現一個奇怪的現象,現在有錢人大多偏愛娶樣貌平平的女人做老婆,對年齡、學歷、是否有共同語言和愛好沒有太多的要求,反而是那些收入越低的男士,偏愛娶年輕貌美、有共同愛好語言的女孩,那麼是收入決定他們的選擇,還是什麼原因呢?

有時候,你會聽到一種令人啼笑皆非的話。一受盡情傷的姑娘,自恃年輕美貌,在萬念俱灰時,說:「我對帥哥已經死心了,以後還是嫁個有錢人算了!」她有這種想法很正常。

因為,在社交場合,任何一個擁有中上之姿的姑娘,都接受過不少來自富人的勾引、示好或明碼標價。這種信號多了,會使缺乏獨立意識的女生迷失。她會誤以為,富人近在咫尺,只要邁開腿,我就能登堂入室,成為不勞而獲的富婆。我們不道德審判。也不嘲弄譏諷。我們來計算一下,這種機率有多大?

精英
精英會娶空有美貌的人嗎?你,死,了,這,條,心,吧。楊瀾曾經採訪過比爾蓋茨,問他:你一生中最聰明的決定,是創建微軟,還是大舉慈善?他回答,都不是,是找到合適的人結婚。

世界首富比爾蓋茨的妻子梅琳達也不是非美豔動人,而是一個相貌平平、身材一般的女人,在比爾眼裡,梅琳達不僅是比爾工作上的夥伴,辦事幹練,更重要的是她具備一個賢妻的特質:性格溫順、大度。

股神巴菲特說:「我年輕時曾與我們州最漂亮的女孩約會,但最後沒有成功。我聽過她後來離過三次婚,如果我們當時真在一起,我都無法想像未來會怎麼樣。所以, 其實你人生中最重要的決定是跟什麼人結婚,在選擇伴侶上,如果你錯了,將讓你損失很多。而且,損失不僅僅是金錢上的。」

他和比爾一樣,也認為人生中最重要的決定,是跟什麼人結婚,而不是任何投資。因此,他們會非常審慎地,對待妻子的選擇。即考慮的不是你有沒有足夠的顏值,吸引我走近你。而是,你有沒有足夠的智慧,陪我一起走下去。

精英階層更加看中的是女人的內在價值,而非外在形式。名利場從來不缺漂亮性感的美女,精英階層早就審美疲勞了,化妝技術、整容技術、整形技術的飆升,更說明瞭越來越不缺乏一張好看的臉和性感的身材。

收入越低的男性所偏好的女性胸部越大,偏好較豐滿,前凸後翹;而收入越高的男性所偏好的女性胸部尺寸越小 ,因為收入較低人群對於[巨.乳]的喜愛源於對於未來的不確定性,需要儘量多的囤積資源,而[巨.乳]象徵的就是更多的食物與資源。

愛情不能讓人白頭偕老,幸福和愛情無關,和感覺無關,任何人和一個沒有感覺的戀人在一起久了也會產生很深的感情,細水長流的感情才是最經得起時間考驗的。

我們往往高估了愛情,卻低估了人性中的善良和責任感。我們以為只有靠愛情才能做到那些事:忍受貧窮與平淡、包容、克服自己的生理欲望。其實,一個人本身的善良和責任感,會超越愛情的力量。千古以來,情愛一事,忠實與否,只在人為,與愛情無關。

富一代
富一代多數從底層逆襲,見過無數刀光劍影,爾虞我詐,眼光都毒得嚇人,人精如狐,城府比黑洞還深不可測,低段位的心機與算計,在他們面前,一眼就露了底。所以,一般的小姑娘,不出幾個回合,人也看透了,送兩個包,走吧。想嫁?搞笑咩你?天方夜譚咩你!

最關鍵的是,我所認識的富一代,多數都沒有離婚,夫人依然是原配,哪怕,在外面玩了N個姑娘,也不會輕易動這份心思。因為:

1. 原配與之一起打江山,如今功成身就,離婚對於他們而言,不厚道。
2. 離婚,幾乎一大半金錢,都要拱手相讓,不划算。
3. 娶一個一無所有的年輕漂亮姑娘,不僅毫無助益,反而徒生枝節,不靠譜。
4. 離婚對父母和子女來說,他們很難接受。

3、富二代
富二代從小錦衣玉。食,從容自由,長大後,性資源豐富,比老爹會多些主動權,選擇時也會更多理性。比如萬達的富二代王思聰,玩了無數網紅,但一個不娶。富二代一般通過婚姻,強強聯手,達成利益最大化。

漂亮的女生,多數過於自我, 自私,缺乏共情能力,很少有真正通情達理之人,更何況,還是靠漂亮嫁豪門的女人,太功利,要不得。那會娶什麼人呢?「門當戶對,家裡也要有錢有勢,這樣才不擔心她是沖錢來的,對我的事業也有幫助。」

4、暴發戶
暴發戶倒是有可能娶美女。窮怕了,往往一有錢,就迫不及待地,要向世人證明自己:豪宅要買,名車要訂,老婆要離,美女要娶。暴發戶娶明星、名媛、網紅、野模、野雞,管她什麼來路,帶出去夠有面兒就成。

暴發戶之所以是暴發戶,就是因為,他會利用錢,來無限滿足自己的動物本能,和多年的內心缺失。他會不停地買買買,吃吃吃,玩玩玩,撩撩撩,睡睡睡。

再何況,這種嫁,還附加更多風險:他的粗俗,禿頂,肥胖,骯髒,無節制的縱欲與玩樂,為所欲為的怒氣和暴力,還有,不把你當人,而是當玩物……這些,都會逐漸地,將你的滿足感清零。

5、美女總是自以為是
現在的女人,稍微身邊多有個男人追,就會把自己擺在一個高高在上的位子上,然而賣關子。但是對那些成功的男人來說,他們幾乎個個都肩負著改造世界的重任,哪有那麼多精力、時間、耐心去瞭解一個人?他們寧可找一個懂自己的,也不會去找一個折騰自己的。

更何況,對於這些男人來說,與其在追一個女孩子上花費大量時間和精力,倒不如把這些時間精力都用在事業發展上,只要事業成功了,一切都來了,如果沒有錢,即使創造了一時的浪漫,又能維持多久?

十年前,我們在各種雜誌上經常能見到各種純愛、唯美的愛情故事,遍及到校園、職場、家庭等各個角落。但現在,我們在互聯網上極少在看到對浪漫愛情的歌頌了,取而代之的是一個個功成名就的創業故事。與愛情相比,我們更願意歌頌功成名就,這就是時代的跨越。

華爾街流傳過這樣一件事。一個非常漂亮的金髮女郎,在一個論壇裡發帖:
本人二十五歲,貌比天仙,談吐文雅,有素質有品位。想嫁給年收入50萬美元的男士。我並不貪心,在紐約年薪100萬的人才算是中產,本人的要求其實不高。徵婚要求貼出去之後,圍觀者無數。

一個有錢人回復了她:
這位女士,我是個生意人。有兩句話,我不得不說,我完全符合你的要求,但對我來說,跟你結婚是個糟糕的決定。你說的其實是一筆簡單的交易,甲方提供迷人的外表,乙方負責提供相應的錢財,看似是一個公平的交易。

但是這裡有一個問題,你的美貌會消逝,我的錢財卻不會無緣無故的減少。事實上,我的收入很可能會逐年遞增,而你卻不大可能一年比一年漂亮。

從經濟學角度講,我是增值資產,你是貶值資產。不但貶值,而且是加速貶值。聽起來會很殘忍,但對於一件加速貶值的物品,明智的選擇是短期租賃,而不是終生購買。

其次,從感情的角度來看,跟你結婚是一個非常冒險的行為,因為如果某天出現了一個年收入比我更多的男人時,我有很大的可能性會遭到你無情的拋棄,而在你對別人投懷送抱的同時,根據婚姻法,我的財產會損失一半。所以,跟你交易的風險非常大。

年薪能超過五十萬的人都不是傻瓜,我們只會跟你交往,而不會跟你結婚。順便說一句,自己變成一個年入五十萬的人,比遇到一個年入五十萬的傻瓜,希望更大!

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