人到中年,要學會無情一點

人到中年,活了大半輩子,前半生,活得混混沌沌,後半生,為自己好好活,人到中年,要學會無情一點,為自己好好活一次,不能別人說什麼就是什麼,侵犯到利益時要嚴厲拒絕。

人到中年,要學會無情一點,有時候,別人要你幫忙做事,事情辦好了,累得自己夠嗆,人家最多一聲答謝,事情沒辦好,不僅費力不討好,還會惹得一身麻煩,吃力不討好的事就還給對方,揮揮衣衫不帶走一點風塵。

人到中年,要學會無情一點,都已經過了大半輩子裡,不用再活在別人的眼裡,無論是做人,還是做事,都要學會拒絕,不懂得拒絕的人,也不會得到別人真正的尊重,得寸進尺永遠是人的天性,你做得再好別人還覺得你有所保留。

在這個現實又複雜的社會,憨厚老實容易被人欺負,柿子都找軟的捏,何況人呢?有自己的底線,有脾氣,也是一份真性情,把嘴邊的話咽回去,縱然是成熟,但把該說的話說出來,才是擔當。

人到中年,要學會無情一點,對自己好一點,並沒有錯,從今以後,人不犯我,我不犯人,人若犯我,我不容忍,大好的人生不是為了別人而活的!做人,真的很難。你心若太善,會被人欺負,不是善良不好,而是人心已變。

你若沒心眼,會被人欺騙,不是壞人太多,而是世道不同。你若太顧情,會被人利用,不是情不值錢,也是錢已貶值。這世上,最難揣測的就是人心。無論你怎麼做,都會有人說你壞。無論你多真心,都會有人騙你情。無論你多成功,都會有人損你名。

在這個現實又複雜的社會,熱臉貼不暖冷屁股,老好人也不會吃香。對各種冷言冷語,不能不在乎,要堅決予以無情的回擊。只有這樣,他們才能嘗到硬骨頭的厲害,才會有所畏懼,有所收斂,才不敢再肆無忌憚地損你陰你毀你。

這個社會,不要怕得罪人。有些人就是喜歡欺軟怕硬,你硬他就軟,你強他就慫。把嘴邊的話咽回去,縱然是成熟但把該說的話說出來,才是擔當。

你講原則,誰都敬你三分;你有底線,誰都不敢觸碰。無論做人,還是做事,太講情,是對自己的傷害;無情一點,方顯真性情!做人,要學會保護自己,珍惜自己,不要對所有的傷害都無所謂。

你的忍讓,能得到智者的理解,也會助長小人的囂張氣焰。誰對你好,百倍還之;誰對你壞,以牙還牙。事找上門,咱不怕!人不犯我,我待之有情有義;人若犯我,我絕不坐以待斃。

做人,就要“無情”一點,讓小人多吃癟,讓好人有好報!

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