尊人有分,敬人有度

人的自尊心是有底線的,決不能被侵犯。做人做事三思後行:看德行事、知情懂禮的人,我們必敬三分;自高自傲的人,必須遠他一尺;尊人有分,敬人有度。

自尊,基於知恥
古語雲:「唯有知恥,才有自尊。」俗話說:「人有臉,樹有皮。」

有了這份羞恥之心,我們做了錯事便會慚愧,辜負了別人的期望會內疚,行為不當就會難過。自尊,源於絕不趨炎附勢卑躬屈膝的氣概。

「窮,要窮得像茶,苦中一縷清香;傲,要傲得像蘭,高掛一臉秋霜。」自尊本來就不論出身、無關貧富,不論體貌、無關職位,自尊是神聖不可侵犯的。

社會是相互的,我們首先要尊重別人,才會贏得別人尊重。當然,尊重別人不是一味諂媚,不是低三下四奉承對方,不是誰天生欠誰的,凡事都有度,我們過於將就別人可能適得其反。

打人莫打臉,罵人莫揭短
在中國,「面子」是一件很重要的事,為了「面子」,小則翻臉,大則鬧出人命。中國人可以吃悶虧,也可以吃明虧,但就是不能吃「沒有面子」的虧。如果你不顧別人的面子,不理解別人的感受,不知天高地厚者,總有一天你也會容顏掃地,遭人遺棄!網路生活都一樣,為人處事品高低,言談舉止論素質。

錢可以少,但,禮貌不可少;文化水準可以低,但做人的素養不可低;我們可以沒權勢,但不能沒良知與品德。比如世間有一種人,命運悲慘,看似可憐,但他骨子裡有一種奸詐仇恨,嫉妒比他幸福的人,即使你對他如何好,也感動不了他的心,這時你必須遠離他。

尊人看本質,敬人看人品
善意不是對所有人都施予的。不識敬、不識輕重的虛偽之人,千萬不要敬他。人的自尊心是有底線的,決不能被侵犯。做人做事三思後行:看德行事、知情懂禮的人,我們必敬三分;自高自傲的人,必須遠他一尺。

知恩圖報者可謂君子,忘恩負義乃為小人,敬君子,棄小人。

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